Sunday, June 19, 2005

Love Notes ...

Have you ever been in the middle of two friends who both fancies another friend of yours?

Sigh … It’s hard! It’s hard especially when your opinion does matter to that fancied friend of yours.

You like them both, they’re both cute, cool and fun to hang around with. You also know that they’ll take good care of that fancied friend of yours very well.

Sigh … I’m currently in that position, I have this two friends who fancies my buddy. I like them both, they’re nice, sweet, funny and cute! :) But I know for a fact that only of them will win my buddy's heart, only one will be loved back, while the other will be left nuts and hurting … sad …
I don't wanna see any of them, WORSE, both of them get hurt if ever my buddy would ditch them both.

But I don't wanna force things, especially if I'm not the primary character in the problem. We're talking about my buddy here, yes I do care a lot and of course, love ko sha that's why I don't wanna see my buddy upset, bothered, and/or hurt ... worse, crying! NO!!!
. . .
Have you ever wondered why LOVE goes back to back with HURT? When you open a door for love, you also open a window for hurt. These two opposite things goes hand in hand, pretty weird isn’t it, but that’s the fact!

To love is to risk! Love is full of sweet and wonderful “kilig” surprises, and at the same time, it is also a bunch of bitter surprises which will knock at your door step once in a while. Worse, the bitter ones are often remembered.

Think about it, is love worth all the pain, hurting, tears and all? Honestly, I say YES!! For I believe that it’s better to love and get hurt, than to never experience love at all. Besides, I’m a loving person, I love to give love, and be loved back. Hurting, yeah it sucks! I’ve been there a lot of times. I loved and get hurt, then love again and get hurt again, so on and so forth. Still, I’m here patiently waiting for love to knock back again.

Allow me to share one of my guiding principles, “no matter how bad a memory of something is, trust me … it still enriched you as a person”.

No comments: